"I can't help feeling this way. I'm going to hell for feeling something I can't help!"
We can offend and argue needlessly if we focus on the wrong issue.
The issue is not the feelings. Everyone, Christian or not, has evil impulses that are a sign of our fallen nature. What we do with those feelings, whether we act on them or not, is what condemns us. We can either ignore them or follow our impulses. If we fall we can either repent of our evil ways, or we can try to justify our actions.
Even homosexuals can repent and turn from homosexual activity. God gives strength to those who ask.